I heal. You Heal. We all Heal. The Asian Women Healing & Creative Collective

Learning to embrace every part of me–Learning and understanding that I’m beautiful–Not feeling ashamed or not looking down on myself and truly learning to accept myself as I come was something I focused so hard on for the last 2 years and of course I still continuously have so much more work to do withinContinue reading “I heal. You Heal. We all Heal. The Asian Women Healing & Creative Collective”

#metoo? – Sexual Assault can be confusing. It comes in many forms.

#metoo? With a question mark, is something we experience all too often. What I experienced, was it really rape? Was it really wrong? Does that even count? I’m probably just being emotional and dramatic like what EVERYONE tells me. But Hell no. You’re experience is validated. And if it FEELS WRONG, IT IS WRONG. WhatContinue reading “#metoo? – Sexual Assault can be confusing. It comes in many forms.”

Bald Asian Women Project: Empowerment Photo shoot & more

DAM* YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL CREATIVE EMPOWERMENT PHOTO SHOOT- Calling for Bald Asian Women/who want/plan to go bald of all SHAPES, SIZES, TEXTURES, AND SPICES! No need to be a America’s Next Top Model. I want you as you come. ❤  In part of Wabi Sabi’s Dam* You’re Beautiful movement, I am calling out to current bald AsianContinue reading “Bald Asian Women Project: Empowerment Photo shoot & more”

It will not take only 1 Day, 1 Week, or 1 Year to Let go of Someone you Love

  This is for the person I love. The person I have to let go. This is for the person I fought to show my love to, and wanted to be loved by so badly. It will not take only 1 day, 1 week, or 1 year to let you go. Two years ago, whenContinue reading “It will not take only 1 Day, 1 Week, or 1 Year to Let go of Someone you Love”

DYB WORKSHOP #2: UNDERSTANDING TRIGGERS & TRANSCENDING SELF-TALK

We sometimes don’t know it, but we act through past traumas that still have a hold on us. Do you sometimes wonder why you get so triggered by a certain smell, comment, or action? It sometimes ruins your mood for the whole day? What is the root of this? For me, I get deeply triggeredContinue reading “DYB WORKSHOP #2: UNDERSTANDING TRIGGERS & TRANSCENDING SELF-TALK”

Dam* You’re Beautiful: Be Bare. Be Authentic. Be Imperfect.

 As a baby, when placed in front of a mirror, we giggle and smile at the sight of our reflection. So much joy It gave us to look at ourselves. A woman who attended my self-love workshop last week shared this insight with our group. She shared about how when they placed a mirror inContinue reading “Dam* You’re Beautiful: Be Bare. Be Authentic. Be Imperfect.”

DAM* You’re Beautiful’s First Ever Workshop

In three day’s I will be hosting my first ever Dam* You’re Beautiful (DYB) Workshop: Working Toward’s Self-Love. DYB was first initiated in Oct 2018, to encourage women to empower one another and acknowledge one another’s unique beauty. We are all different, with different talents, personalities, and physicality. There really isn’t ONE beauty. And that’sContinue reading “DAM* You’re Beautiful’s First Ever Workshop”

When in a Toxic Relationship: Reflect

“This beautiful toxic love of mine .” When you find yourself in a toxic relationship where you always feel like your holding your breath, there’s no space to breathe, there are no boundaries, and you cry more than you smile, ask yourself why you’re enduring this?      Of course, there are beautiful moments andContinue reading “When in a Toxic Relationship: Reflect”

Spirituality and Purpose: What it Means to Me

Since Fall of 2017, I’ve embarked on this deep spiritual journey to connect back to my roots. The roots that made me. Me. Not the Cydi that was created by the beliefs of my culture, what my parents told me, or the negative messages from my surroundings and society. I had to re-discover the CydiContinue reading “Spirituality and Purpose: What it Means to Me”

Taking Back my Body Series – If You Don’t Stand for Anything, You’ll Fall for Everything

“If you don’t stand for anything, you’ll fall for everything.” – In searching for love, for someone to understand me, want to spend time with me and give me attention–in searching for someone who could just be “nice” to me, I fell for everything. I fell for beautiful faces with charming smiles who winked andContinue reading “Taking Back my Body Series – If You Don’t Stand for Anything, You’ll Fall for Everything”