To the Woman Whom came Before me: Reflection and Rant of a grieving Hmong Granddaughter

There’s so much I have to say Tais… There are so much unspoken feelings; Too many angry words thrown into the pile and not enough gratitude passed through my lips into your ears. Not enough understanding of what you were going through; that the beautiful, fierce strong woman I knew was deteriorating at such aContinue reading “To the Woman Whom came Before me: Reflection and Rant of a grieving Hmong Granddaughter”

It will not take only 1 Day, 1 Week, or 1 Year to Let go of Someone you Love

  This is for the person I love. The person I have to let go. This is for the person I fought to show my love to, and wanted to be loved by so badly. It will not take only 1 day, 1 week, or 1 year to let you go. Two years ago, whenContinue reading “It will not take only 1 Day, 1 Week, or 1 Year to Let go of Someone you Love”

When in a Toxic Relationship: Reflect

“This beautiful toxic love of mine .” When you find yourself in a toxic relationship where you always feel like your holding your breath, there’s no space to breathe, there are no boundaries, and you cry more than you smile, ask yourself why you’re enduring this?      Of course, there are beautiful moments andContinue reading “When in a Toxic Relationship: Reflect”

Taking Back my Body Series – If You Don’t Stand for Anything, You’ll Fall for Everything

“If you don’t stand for anything, you’ll fall for everything.” – In searching for love, for someone to understand me, want to spend time with me and give me attention–in searching for someone who could just be “nice” to me, I fell for everything. I fell for beautiful faces with charming smiles who winked andContinue reading “Taking Back my Body Series – If You Don’t Stand for Anything, You’ll Fall for Everything”

Happy 2019 – 5 Highlights from 2018

Hello beautiful humans of this earth. Guess what? 2019 has come! And let me tell you how ecstatic I am that 2019 is here. 2018 has been one heck of a year for me and I’m sure for a lot of you too. I just want to take some time to reflect about my 2018Continue reading “Happy 2019 – 5 Highlights from 2018”

Daddy Issues

Why I look for you in every man Why you were the only person I felt that loved me as a child How I grew from you when my body grew How I yearned To sit on your lap again To hold your hands To sit on your shoulders How I felt like I lostContinue reading “Daddy Issues”